Thank you all. I will admit that it hurt when I first received it. But when I went back and read it again, it does make a lot of sense. IC said that I also need to take it slow in order to process the hurt that I have been through. He believes it will help with handling the anger on the other side of this. He also said that I need it to gain confidence It is strange that he is focused on my anger and resentment when it currently isn't a problem for me.
I am reassured by my W response as well.
--W----------------------
Yes, I will let you know.
Let’s talk when I come back.
Thanks for understanding and caring. Caring is everything….
PS I was thinking about our conversation last evening about love and found this Shakespeare note in a little book at work. Like you said love may be hard to define but we know it when we see it. Shakespeare called it “the glorious intangible”. “Love is the will do and the soul to dare. Its two parts caring, and three parts passion. It’s people who give more than they take. Love accept no boundaries, offers no excuses, overcomes all odds, and comes through smiling”.