Dear Corri,
I know we just "met" but I wanted to say that your advice to me was so valuable and I have thought about it a lot over the last few days. I think I really needed someone to stand up and say "LOOK AT YOUR SITUATION! IT'S NOT NORMAL! IT'S WRONG TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!" You are so right. I know now that if things don't change I can't continue this way. I hope the best for you in your marriage and I think you have the strength to make things happen the way you want and need them to be.
Starving