Thanks guys, printed off your posts, the skydiving stuff, did that when we were married, wasn't anything new.
Stuff i ignored was paying the bills and watching the checking account and knowing she was hurting even before we met and figured she'd work her way out of it. if i showed her enough support, spoiled her rotten and treated her good, when deep down inside me, i knew something was always bothering her. Knew that from the first moment i saw her, before we were even a couple.