smiley face = : ). It is easier to type out that way...although I like how you type it out. See if you turn it sideways...then it is a smiley face. It is called an emoticon.
You asked me ...much earlier and I didn't see it in all your posts about what happenes when they say "Well you never..."
Ask yourself is it true? Did I never do (whatever it is crazy lady said I never did?) (Even crazy people can be right?) If it is true, did they ask you do do it, even with that whole passive aggresive BS way of not actually asking you verbally, and you ignored them? Can you see how it might upset them?
If it is false it is the same thing as calling a skinny person fat...untrue. Move on...BUT do that thing in the future. Now you know, and as G.I. Joe says... "and knowing is half the battle."
"The third little Joe built his house out of steel reinforced concrete with overlapping fields of fire."
You said you do not want an insecure wife back...
(Long count pause)
EVERYTHING you do (correctly I MUST stress) leads to you being stronger.
Do you think they come back all whole and hale? Do you believe they come out of this stronger and more resiliant? Stride for stride and full of vigor? I'll wait for you to park your unicorn next to the rainbow bridge if you say yes.
If she comes back, she is going to be broken and battered.
You get to the strong one. You get to support her, all the while not falling back to old habits and walking a razor edge.
Everything you do now is to make you stronger and better...and if she comes back you will need every ounce of that to help support her.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
