I don't think that was meant as a mean backhanded slap. The point is: Whatever meaning you have invested in the chest, she may not. You can't project your feelings onto her.

I would have worded it differently, but I don't think McQueen was being malicious.

Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053