We all 'suck' at times. You are not perfect, no one is. So don't beat yourself up just because you are hurt and angry.
You are right. That was a hoop argument, and it looks like he won. So, who is in control? I hope it isn't either one of you, but the two of you working together.
Maybe you should give things a couple of days to calm down. Maybe you do need to spend less time helping other people, maybe your husband needs to grow up a bit. It is impossible for us to know, but in your heart, you do know.
All of this is to say, don't run off half baked.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
