I have a S with ADHD as well, so I know some of what you are going through with that. Isn't bad once you understand, and I was not a believer at first.
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I didn't respond and didn't say anything about her late arrival. Should I be engaging when she says something or pretend to not GAS?
I wouldn't give her the cold shoulder. You don't have to act like it's the most comeplling thing you've heard in a while. Just listen and respond as you see fit. Just don't be cold.
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I am wondering whether it's fair to not tell them until we know when one of us is actually moving out. I don't see that happening for months.
Don't think I would tell them unless you KNOW this IS going to happen. Otherwise, what happens if you tell them then no one moves out. No reason to bring that upon them until necessary.
