Well couple weeks later and got email from X with this in it: "I think you may have misunderstood my intention when I wanted to talk over dinner. ....Really it was just how I would like us to be friends one day. ..."
Is she out of her damn mind?... I wanted all or nothing with her and thats where I stand on it.
Did you tell her that? Simplest thing to do might be to just tell her that. Then she should quit bothering you, and you can rest easy yourself.