I just don't want RSF screwing himself for years to come because of guilt he feels due to the poor decisions he's made in the past. Divorce sucks, regardless of fault or cause, everyone suffers financially. They have both seemed to manage OK this past year...why are things harder now?
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done