I hope you read this. I know we'll all really miss you on the boards. I wish you would reconsider. I can understand your H worrying about his privacy (or that we might all come round and give him a slap for being such a GIT) but you are entitled to have a hobby and some friends. If you changed your user name and did not give out so many details when asking for advice, and spent less time on the boards wouldn't this be enough of a compromise? Don't give it up altogether we will miss your blunt advice.
Corri you have to stand up for yourself more in your M. Give your H some of that Yorkshire Grit. What has he done lately to make YOU feel loved. It's a two way street, isn't it and you're not just his personal housekeeper. As for your job a friend of mine's H started a home computer business a few years ago and it went through the roof and made loads of money. If she hadn't supported him when he started that wouldn't have happened and she would not now have a posh new car and a villa in Spain. She worked 60 hrs a week to help pay the bills but I know she wouldn't have complained if it didn't work out. She wanted him to have a career that made him happy more than anything. But she sure ain't complaining now.
I'm sure your H has some legitimate points. Maybe you should be more thoughtful and you should respect his privacy. But my H is an extremely private man who doesn't even like me telling my Mum (who always sides with him anyway) when we have an argument, and he has been very understanding about me using these boards. You deserve to receive an equal amount of respect and support and understanding as you give out.
So Corri please don't leave us, but if you feel you should then good luck and I hope everything turns out wonderfully for you.
