Originally Posted By: d1adsl5a
Been there, done that etrain. Confronted her with all sorts of evidence. Cell phone calls, texts.. They deny, deny, deny.

I stopped snooping and got my sanity back. I can't control her. She is going to do what she is going to do. Regardless, this Marriage will get better or end. Ball is in her court. I can't control her actions. So I just gave up snooping...


When I found the email a couple weeks ago, it was the result of some snooping. Also saw some very mean IM's between my W & one of her girlfriends on my W's Facebook. Nothing about an A on her Facebook though.
After that, I came to the same conclusion as you. The snooping was making me crazy & making things worse so I stopped doing it.

Last edited by etrain; 10/01/09 04:22 PM.
Me-39
W-31
S-4
Bomb- 9/5/09
Discovered EA- 9/15/09
Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09
W moved out 10/31/09