You need to try and hang in there. My H did the same thing, no phone number for even the kids to call. This went on for over 3 months and I wasn't calling him at all. They don't make sense when they are like this, IMO you just need to give her space and time.
He didn't see or call any of us for that period of time so I figured he didn't want anything at all to do with us then all of a sudden he starts writing to D12 and gives phone number out but like I said in my post he called me the following day.
They are sick and there isn't anything we can do for them until they want to help themselves. They need to realize something is wrong but don't make the mistake I did by telling your W.
They don't believe us at all. I think it would have to come from a friend or something.
My H made lies up about me etc. But I know the truth. You have to have patience and I know how hard it is because I have very little patience. I just keep saying to myself he is ill.
I haven't heard from him since Friday so I don't know what to think now either.