One more thing. I am controlling with money. So after this happened she finally agreed to pay the bills. Wanted her to see what to do when we spend more than I make. Last two months the visa bill was $5k every month..
Yes. Me too. She's admitted to me that taking care of her own finances is a real eye-opener. That's one area where I'm really not scare of a D. Right now, I'm paying all of the credit card debt she ran up, if she goes through with a D, then 50 percent of that becomes hers.
Financially, a D is better than a S for me.
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