As I always say, Sandi is a wise woman.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
...It is hard to see things as plainly in our own stitch as we can when it is somebody else's.
Helping others helps me. Advise I pass out becomes believes that I can use in my own sitch. I step out of MY BOX and think, what would I tell someone else? What would someone else say to me? This thinking before reacting helps me focus on what is important and does not let my subconscious reactions take over.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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