I received this e-mail this morning. I am at a loss right now. I don't want to live my life in a relationship like this.
--W---------------------------------
Thanks for coming last evening. I really enjoy spending time with you. Making love under the covers while half dressed was fun…:)
Tristan, I am thinking about tonight. I am having the feeling that you want us to be back in the same house soon and I am not sure I am ready for that. I want our family to be a family again but I want to be done right. I have a feeling that we are moving this too fast. I don’t want to find myself in the same state I was before I moved out. I am thinking that sleeping together every day and having each other over all the time is not what I want at this time. I want contact but I also want my space, if that makes sense. I know this may be confusing, but I want to date you again, I don’t want us to move in together yet. You are welcome to come over and visit but we should slow down the staying over each others place.
Please let me know your thoughts.
Love, W
--M1----------------------
Hi,
Thank you, I enjoyed last night too.
I understand and respect your concerns about moving too fast. I will take some time and digest the rest if that is OK. It is a lot to contemplate and I need to get some work done.
Take care, -Tristan
--M2----------------------
Are you still planning on setting up an appointment for a marriage counselor today? I think it would be good forum where we could discuss these things. I want to be respectful to your need for space and time to heal. I think a good counselor could help us find the right path to follow to give you the time and space you need while also healing our marriage.
