One more thing...last night, I left the DB window open on our computer...with the WAW Syndrome article on the screen...just so my W would see it. I just asked her if she read it & she said...yeah, I figured that's why you left it up. I asked if she thought it sounded like what we're going through & she said...no, not at all.
maybe you should leave the womensinfidelity.com web page up and ask her if that sounds like what you are going through ...
Originally Posted By: etrain
Amazing. I'm telling you, it is EXACTLY what we're going through. Maybe having her read the article was a mistake. I don't know. Just thought it might make her realize that what we're going through is sort of common & things can get better.
In her mind it is not, and why to you think she might want to realize/think things may get better. To make things more clear, why does it sound EXACTLY what you are going through? What have you done to neglect her and left her needing to move on? Forget how she is acting now. What pissed or turned her off to decide this for herself?
Originally Posted By: etrain
This morning, she was still in a pretty good mood but actually got sick to her stomach & vomited as we were all getting ready to leave the house. She's been having stomach problems like this for weeks. Part of me thinks it's the guilt that's getting to her.
nice. guilt rarely plays into these situations. shes barfing up something else. bad shrimp? she told you earlier what is going on:
Originally Posted By: etrain
all my W says is that her needs have changed & she's not in love w/ me anymore.
now, alot of people on this site say, dont believe anything they say. I disagree with that so much. my needs have changed and I'm not in love with you anymore jeez, sounds to me like either they have something on the side which is more inticing and they are letting you down easy or they have very little respect or love for you to mess with your head and heart like that. which is better? which is more true?
Originally Posted By: etrain
Yes, I do suspect an A. But what should I do?
you either go lunatic or you go cuckold!
the sooner you know the truth the sooner you can deal with the situation effectively and make them step-up to the plate. I think it is more lunatic to be hanging out on this site for 6 months - a year then all of a sudden posting shes been cheating on me the whole time or worse to follow the advice, 'give them space' so they can get laid elsewhere.
but lets hear what you have to say,
What have you done to neglect her and left her needing to move on? What pissed or turned her off to decide this for herself? and if you gave her space, lets say for a year to find herself, gets screwed maybe 200 - 250 times, then wants to work on your marriage, are you into it?
