Hi Peace, I don't often post now, but read your post and just wanted to say that I have felt very much like you do. Years down the line I think in a strange way I am glad that my H married the OW, because otherwise what was the point of so much heartache for me and my children. At least I can (in my head-never my heart) reason that he did all those things and abandoned his kids because for him it was the only way as he was "in love" It is the only way for me to come to terms with his m! probably won't help you much but just to let you know that for me,it helped to take that POV. I wish you well in your new R.hopfully we have learnt and grown stronger through all of this madness.
