Well couple weeks later and got email from X with this in it: "I think you may have misunderstood my intention when I wanted to talk over dinner. Sorry- you know me- all forward and in your face. Dinner was probably a bit much huh? Really it was just how I would like us to be friends one day. I know… baby steps. I was going to see how you felt about maybe coming when I take the kids to the pumkin patch? You could meet us there. I do not want to make you feel uncomfortable. Or misguide you that I’m trying to save a marriage that is already over legally. I just know how happy it would the kids for us both to be there and be able to watch them play."
Is she out of her damn mind? Goes on to say just think about it and what weekend she was planning that. I dropped S off couple days before that at her house and OM car was there so still together. I wanted all or nothing with her and thats where I stand on it. Dont like to be around X or listen to her more than I half to. Sucks for the kids cause I hear stuff or cant let S do things with his cousin because all of this.
On that note, X keeps asking if I am going to this one event this weekend cause I go every year. Well dont have tickets this year and its my weekend with the kids, and she got offered tickets, but funny never wanted to go with me. Says she would much rather spend time with the kids than go to it, and doesnt want me to wait until last minute to tell her if I am going. My stand is I shouldnt have to tell X if I am not going. I talked to X on phone the other night after D handed it to me, but she didnt ask then. Its times like this its all about her so she can plan her life out. X wants both of best worlds. Hate playing it like this but I didnt choose this path.
