Thanks for the opinions. Lots of good points. I haven't made a decision yet how I'm going to proceed. I'm feeling really anxious to talk to H, but at the same time, I have a feeling it might be like talking to a brick wall. I think I'm just as interested in R talk and telling H how I feel as I am about discussing D. Trying to be patient, but this feeling is really nagging me and I haven't been able to shake it.
If I don't push H on this, I imagine he'll allow it to drag on. I have trips planned in all of the next 3 months, so I'd really like to get started on this now while I have the time. It'll be next year before I know it, and I'll still be in the same boat.
Part of the reason why I'd like to get this taken care of now is because H isn't seeing anyone (that I'm aware). I think he'll be more clear-headed, fair, and generous on his own than he'd be with someone else in the picture.
Given H's inability to look at me, I'm thinking discussing things over the phone may be better. H seems more comfortable that way - and it was how our R started. Although, I won't be able to read his body language etc. if we don't meet face to face. Not that it matters, I guess.
Holding myself back from sending him a message right now, but may just have to do it by tomorrow.
