Thanks Julia...but I think it just made me more mad than anything. He went behind my back to work his past due mortgage into our bankrutpcy, which we both pay 50/50 for every month, and then expects me to cover half of it.
I honestly have half a mind to go through to paperwork and total up each of our separate bills. I realize this won't do any good, but I am so sick to death of being blamed for this. I sent several emails after that (and for THAT matter...blah blah). I was so mad that he would just get four to six months behind on HIS mortgage, and KNOWING I was just getting on my feet would expect me to be "understanding" and cover his payment. Screw that. I had to point out that there have been several times when I have needed him and he was not "understanding."
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. I think he is realizing that I don't need him...he is not happy...and he basically f*cked his life.
Not my problem anymore.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
