Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

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The family contact is an iffy thing....it got me a lot of information and I realized how much my W was lying to them to make it one-sided. On the other hand, it did piss her off and may have driven her further away. For me, in my sitch, it was worth it. There were times I regretted it but looking back, it was ok. Her Mom contacted me a lot and warned me about a number of things....they used to be close but not anymore. My W just hangs up on her now.