I would agree. It is amazing what you can push aside and become numb too. It is almost like I am in triage mode...stay alive for now..but as EB said, the rest will have to be dealt with at some time. How you both deal with that anger will likely be very important to patching things up.

M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4

Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!