He wrote back that he leaves for France tomorrow. He had been trying for 3 days to make travel and hotel reservations and couldn't figure it out. Finally, the people he is staying with did it for him. I guess they figured that he would never leave unless they did. He signed off with "I wish you happiness" No further inquiry about my plans to visit Nearby State.
Maybe it was already too late to get him coming back my way. I suppose that might change now that he leaves the City where he was the Star of the Month with lots going on and many people around. What I am doing in my life is pretty much the same either way.
Dudess...to him this is just a game of oneupmanship. Which, unfortunately, is probably his home turf. It really doesn't have anything to do with you, when it comes down to it. He just gets to protect himself in his old, ineffective ways.
What this note really told you is that he still can't take care of himself like a proper adult, he doesn't know how to handle the situation with you, and can't even get from point A to point B on a map without someone else doing it for him.
And that he's having minor surgery...(hint hint).
And he did fish to find out if you were "moving" moving, or just going on a trip. I don't think it necessarily means he doesn't care, it means he's trying to find out without acting like he cares. IMO.
Which isn't to say that all this doesn't hurt and suck really bad, because it does. Lift your chin up, he was trying to get at you with that message, you are way stronger than him. And he knows it.
