wife left, wants divorce, possibly bipolar

[ryepatch]

yeah, just a bunch of stuff going on that would require a lot of background and typing to explain. in brief:

A) she cancelled our car insurance, which she could be prosecuted for (interfering in judicial proceedings) since there's technically a divorce underway. i sent an email to her with the citation and what i'm thinking about the legal stuff (mediation rather than hiring lawyers, for example). i copied it to her coworker and her roommate. no answer from any of them.

B) a few more unexplained knocks on the door. grrr. . .

C) our last mutual friend is gone. she gave him her new number but made him promise he wouldn't give it to me. i don't know why it matters, she hasn't answered the phone when i call since the day she left, and i could call her at work. anyway, he and i are no longer talking. i can't be friends with someone who's withholding contact info about my mentally ill wife. he said he gave his word.

this is the friend who gave her LSD two weeks after she left, which i think triggered her mania/hypomania.

he and i still have a common friend, though, so now i'll be getting third-hand information. totally ridiculous.

D) she told him she's afraid of talking to me (or reading emails or letters) because I have the power to put ideas in her head and make her think they're hers. not an exact quote, it's a little unclear how psychotic this is but it definitely shows that she's incredibly paranoid and obsessed by me.

anyway, still standing by my marriage. anything could happen.

E) i have two therapists, my marriage counselor and then this other one, who told me today that she might not be able to see me anymore because we have philosophical differences and i'm not trying to get healthy. our MC totally supports me, and is still trying to reach out to my wife.