Your get together sounds wonderful really wish I could be there to, but its a little harder to achieve on a budget from over here!
Cas you are an inspiration on the patience and no expectations front, all of us know how hard it is to do and patience certainly isnt usually us girlies strong point.
IMHO I agree with Oz your H is still there dipping in and out, ok it may be a while before he lifts his fog but who knows, never say never and as you long as you carry on GAL and fufulling yourself regardless of H thats got to be good!
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