You have definitely run the gamit here, and given it your best shot. But I don't think these people realize you can't slap someone in the face, apologize, and then turn around and do it again, even harder.
Stand firm Girlie. I am not sure what the divorce laws are where you are, can you just serve him or does it need to be a joint decision?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
K, like I wrote to BBJ, closure does not come from a piece of paper. Closure comes from within....it is your choice. Talk to yourself, eventually you will believe what you are saying and maybe get to that closure before your husband files (I have a hunch it's gonna be a while before he files).
Financial future and the forced death of any hopes lingering. Not of our M per se but for somekind of happy ending, something that will make all of this have a meaning.
I got mad last night. My blood pressure must have been high and my heart was beating too fast. I had to MAKE myself calm down...
I want to hurt him sooo bad for the mess he made out of our life. Out of the lives of the 4 of us... K
Of course, you do know that in the long run, that won't solve anything...only bring instant gratification.
But if you want, I will hold him down and you can kick him in the nuts...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Sent a message about Sat morning, he cant have the kids early, it's my niece's bday party. He has to pick them afterwards.
Start the message "I dont like being ignored" because since my last email, he has avoided talking to me to the point he didnt call my D yestreday and of course no answer on the finances.
He answered, "I am not ignoring you. I am just trying to think of a way to convince you What time is the party and when".
I replied he is picking them up AFTER the party, not a comment about what it would take to convince me.
I am making up a list though in the meantime : Channel Marc Jacobs Valentino Rolex (hate them but I could sell them-LOL) etc etc K
Women of the world unite against the a$$es of the planet! 