1) The look - your outfit, hair, teeth, nails, makeup, perfume, etc. should be immaculate. Think about what he likes and go that direction. Don't tart it up too much unless that IS what he likes.
2) I agree with the folks who said not to go over the top with it.
3) Think back to what worked when you were courting - do some of that.
4) Classic flirting gestures: toying with a lock of your hair, reaching to touch his hand or arm when talking, smile a lot, make eye contact, lick your lips ever so subtly, use a fingertip to circle the rim of your water/wine glass, offer bites of your dinner or dessert to him on your fork and let him feed you the same way if he offers.
5) Be attentive. Listen and ask him leading questions about whatever he's saying. Let *him* shine. Make witty comments, but let him do most of the talking.
I hope that doesn't seem too basic.
Best wishes!
Dia
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