why don't you explain to us men here, in a language that we men can understand, what it is that has fired up Puppy's wife?
She stopped seeing him as a strict, judgmental husband, and started seeing him as a signle, available male.
I think she lost the fun, romantic, playfulness with her "husband" and began to think of him in the area of one who would discipline her if she didn't walk a straight line. However, once he called the shots of wanting to be free to date other women.....then suddenly everything changed to Mrs. Puppy. He stopped being the strict husband figure and was cast into the light of being available "bachelor".
How many dates did it take for her jealousy to peek and for her to realize she didn't want Pup to get away? Gucci is correct in his evaluation about all of this, and I knew he was....simply b/c of how the human nature is.....but I would not encourage it in the past b/c of the the Christian perspective--and didn't want to mislead a newcomer in anything I might be "advising", but hey.....I won't throw stones when I've seen Pup do everything he could and it did not budge her! I really think this was his LRT before filing for D.
You see, to me...dating does not automatically mean having sex. But to a lot of people, it is just assumed that a date is "sex" and that is why I have not encouraged newcomers to do this. They are confused enough when they get here! It never ceases to amaze me how some folks can misunderstand what I mean! But, anyway, since I've read about Mrs. Pup's great turn-around, I have taken a few chances in suggesting going out on friendly or casual dates. After all, isn't our theme song "Do What Works"? I don't think that a newcomer needs to get "involved" in another serious R. But, Puppy certainly isn't a newcomer and when it is 'now or never'.....go for it.
I think I just heard a few bodies hit the floor in a dead faint!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
