Getting mildly frustrated...not like I am in a hurry so I can go marry somebody else...but still...

The guy says he wants us to get back together. Then he dumps me in an email, saying he will give me whatever I ask for. That he cannot find the 'spark' for me, so he will prove himself as a father to our kids, etc etc.

He said in that email to me and to ow, that he was moving forward with his life after the hell of the past 2-3 years of indecision, and he "encouraged (us) to do the same". Yep, he said that.

So, if that is the case, why hasn't he notarized the receipt of service? Why has he not commented on the draft I sent him Monday of our terms? Sigh.....

I know you predicted this Jeff, calling him a 'man of inaction'. Seriously, though. With such a momentous email coming from him--from his pov, you would have had to read the whole email, it was like he was finally putting down the burden of living all the lies and trying to be with both of us, etc etc, finally moving forward with his life instead of leading anybody on...

Then why not get the proverbial show on the road?

And even if I am not trying to 'DB' him, I refuse to be the nagging moquito in his ear...

"When are you going to sign the receipt?"
"Did you look over the terms I wrote up
?"


So, short of having him served--I still don't want to play that card since I want him to sign off on the settlement we came up with before the anger strikes again--any ideas??


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17