Buttercup...thanks for the response, its greatly appreciated. I'd say that cheerleader would be an accurate description for me. Neither of us have ever been "sex phanatics" if u will, when it was good it was once a week on average. Nearly as soon as we got married it started dwindling down to what we have now...nothing! I'm going to work the 180 in the next few days, thanks for the info! I don't want him take for me and our marriage for granted, thinking that it and I will remain automatically without effort from him. Thanks again.