She knows that's why you left it up and she resents you for it. I remember another poster writing that he'd read all these relationship books and look for sections he could read to his W to show her what she was doing wrong.
Look at it this way, if your S life was bad, would you like it if she left a magazine on the table with tips on how to be better? You'd be embarrassed and P'd off.
Yeah, the article thing probably wasn't the best move for me to make. I actually thought it might give her some hope since it focuses on how things can improve, even though they might seem hopeless right now...but I can see how she might take it the wrong way. She was very agitated when I asked her about it. Okay, dumb move #1 for etrain.
I did pick up DR this evening...haven't had a chance to read any of it yet. I've been busy with my son. Speaking of...I wonder if my W realizes that, by going out every night to get away from me, she's also getting away from her son. I guess things are so awful for her that the tradeoff is worth it.
Last edited by etrain; 10/01/0901:37 AM.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
