Funny, I have been on this board for 3 mos. & have just now figured out how to add the emoticons!!
Thank you Calli for your input. You are so right! I had that happen too, one Sat. a few mos. ago H called that he was on his way to cut the grass, & I was about to bathe dog & looked like crap!
I do reply when he emails, just to whatever he talks about. Then, nothing. Or he'll reply "we have to talk..."
I like your suggestion! My DB coach said to buy flowers, & have them out, and leave an ambiguous note like "call Chris". I know i need to work on me & GAL etc., but I just want to know I did everything I could to save my M. And doing stuff like that is what I can do that is not pursuing. It's like walking a tightrope!
You are such a great mom to put your kids first even though no one could blame you for wanting to be closer to your family. It must be tough with 2 little ones. I hope you are doing OK today & things calm down w H. Thanks for your support!