As long as my StBX continued to deny my reality that it

it hurt more to stay, than to go

and argued with it, as some of you have so eloquently done... I stayed gone.

When he could see it through my eyes & understand it ... that is when he was given a chance to fix it.

but as you both have pointed out... not all WAW are the same & you seem to have a good handle on what they are thinking.

Good luck & peace
Bridge




Last edited by Bridgestone; 09/30/09 11:34 PM.

Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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