Good stuff! I think you're doing all the right things. It's hard to see progress from inside our sitch and it helps to have outside perspective. Hang in there!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK