Well, its been a pretty interesting time over the last few days. Interesting meaning not good. Today I met with the L again for more advice on what to do about the WAWs apartment. Good news is that I did not sign for it. Bad news is that, after discussions with the attorney, he and I felt it best to enter into temp birds nest like agreement. However, I will not stay at her apartment. I will be on my own to find a place on my off weekends. Other wise I am in the house or traveling for work.
This is tough because she continues to hurl the insults my way. I accept this is part of the process, but it doesnt feel good.
Even after giving her an agreement on the "birds nest," she still managed to find a way to get it into a negative by asking me to help her move heavy stuff. L said I was not to do anything like that or even step foot into her apartment. So I told her no, the L said I could not. That put her into a hyper fit. She told me that I was an adult and nobody should tell me what to do. Well, I guess I play by the rules..... She is the one that isnt.
But I am sticking to it. I expect it to get worse before it has a chance to get better, if that is even a possibility. Coach and Greek, when you were in the thick of it, how bad did it get between you two? Did you ever see any good in each other then?
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
