No, I know...you are right. I don't deny it is selfish...
I have stuck to my "last resort guns" and actually saw it do some good today. We were emailing coordially. I didn't do it too much and it ended on a positive note.
I know she is thinking about things with less anger...I guess I don't know, but I do see some positive...I have days like that though too.
Time will tell. I will cherrish the time with the kids tonight and through the next week. We go to Mediation on Monday, which stinks; but I will be upbeat and positive and supportive, but also fair to her and myself.
Thank you, Unknown, for the directness of your statment...it does help.
