One more thing...last night, I left the DB window open on our computer...with the WAW Syndrome article on the screen...just so my W would see it. I just asked her if she read it & she said...yeah, I figured that's why you left it up. I asked if she thought it sounded like what we're going through & she said...no, not at all.
She knows that's why you left it up and she resents you for it. I remember another poster writing that he'd read all these relationship books and look for sections he could read to his W to show her what she was doing wrong.
Your only chance to work on you, improve yourself and pray that she sees the changes and wants to keep you around.
I've learned the hard way I can't make my W happy, only she can. I can't fix our M, I can only fix myself and hope she wants to work at it.
The only good conversation my W and I have had about our R is after I wrote her a letter admitting what I had done wrong -- through a marriage class I had a major epiphany -- and that I don't blame her 100 percent for the breakup. That's the only chance I have of saving my M.
Look at it this way, if your S life was bad, would you like it if she left a magazine on the table with tips on how to be better? You'd be embarrassed and P'd off.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
