You are correct l, a marriage stands on commitment not feelings, my problem at the time was what to do with those feelings... I didn't know what to do about them, I thought my ex and I could discuss them and maybe he would see clearer than I at the time And I guess we might have worked this out together instead of both of us going our separate ways. It is difficult going from wife to friend and figuring out how not to overstep my boundries and not be standoffish either. I'm having a hard time figuring out what I should do to build trust without being too pursuing of him. I've learned a lot about me, I'm sure I'm more ready for a relationship with him now than I was ever before.
