If it was all good...then it is understandable. Bet your wife doesn't share that view 100%.
Fix yourself...speaking of which...what are you working on in yourself?
Control issues? Like maybe not telling a good natured neighbor what to do? Or suggesting that HE somehow has a part in whether or not you get a divorce?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
If it was all good...then it is understandable. Bet your wife doesn't share that view 100%.
Fix yourself...speaking of which...what are you working on in yourself?
Control issues? Like maybe not telling a good natured neighbor what to do? Or suggesting that HE somehow has a part in whether or not you get a divorce?
She doesn't now Jack,but I know it was more other stuff than me,STRESS and it was good, she used to go to me for stuff and security and answers not because of me, because of her insecurities,she said it herself a yr ago "I put her ahead of everything." And she put a lot of things ahead of herself.
We did have a good marriage, that's what's so frustrating in all of this.Even the guy the EA guy told me he never met someone so committed to his family,so yeah i'm alittle put out.
the EA guy said "there is no doubt you care for your wife and man I don't know why she's doing this to you."
He said that a couple wks ago when I was at the house he walked over to say hi.
Jack it's good to see ur here,I've been working on me, everyday gets better and i do see this as an opportunity to do things for myself,I am not the same person I was and I know I'm not the person I'm going to turn out to be.
Yeah with the neighbor big mistake, wish i posted before i did it,because the post last nite made perfect sense. I texted neighbor apology had an opportunity to think and replaying that i sounded a little controling, I didn't have trouble with you helping when i lived there, don't know why i do now and i apologize.
i don't want to be on the insurance she did tell agent i wouldn't be driving it, he asked her something smart like guess ur hubby won't be bringing ur car to work anytime soon.
Went skydiving,i'll go again, taking guitar lessons,relearning 9th grade science to help D,now i'm coaching,got the motorcycle,probably going to get the dirt bike tonite.learning the bible,praying like none other,not drinking much,took son to dinner and he watched me drink odouls and laughed,got the patch to quit smoking,going to cnslr to learn better communication.reading i've got a heck of a library.
And I haven't initiated any contact with her since last wk.
So what else should i do?I feel good about myself.
