Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
You miss how it was?

If it was all good...then it is understandable. Bet your wife doesn't share that view 100%.

Fix yourself...speaking of which...what are you working on in yourself?

Control issues? Like maybe not telling a good natured neighbor what to do? Or suggesting that HE somehow has a part in whether or not you get a divorce?

She doesn't now Jack,but I know it was more other stuff than me,STRESS and it was good, she used to go to me for stuff and security and answers not because of me, because of her insecurities,she said it herself a yr ago "I put her ahead of everything." And she put a lot of things ahead of herself.

We did have a good marriage, that's what's so frustrating in all of this.Even the guy the EA guy told me he never met someone so committed to his family,so yeah i'm alittle put out.