If it was all good...then it is understandable. Bet your wife doesn't share that view 100%.
Fix yourself...speaking of which...what are you working on in yourself?
Control issues? Like maybe not telling a good natured neighbor what to do? Or suggesting that HE somehow has a part in whether or not you get a divorce?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK