K4D Rising #4

[ClingingToHope]

I won't be the one to file as Paul said, Husbands, do not divorce your wife. So I won't do that.

And yes I look at each week as W has not refiled for D as a positive. Some say it is just a timing issue. I saw the D get dismissed and I have seen the refiling constantly delayed, so I think there is more at work there than meets the eye. Here we are approaching the holidays and W is about to be out of a job, so I know she doesn't want to spend the money right now. I have no idea what happens when her job comes to an end. I am now trying to save more for many reasons, but that being one of them with the expectancy of my expenses to go up when W isn't bringing in a paycheck.

I guess I'm like you inching along, inching along. My W originally said she wouldn't file until 2010 because she wants to get on her pre-paid legal plan offered through her job.

So I guess January will be a big month for me. My six month lease is up that month. She'll be having to prepare for summer camps for the kids -- that was $2,500 this year.

It'll be interesting if she files that month or not. My job is to do what you are doing, love unconditionally, work on bettering myself and be the best father I can.

That being said, I've seen threads on here where people are still married but have been apart for three years while the WAS is on his or her second or third relationship.

I don't think I'd be able to be that patient either.