Your D is at an impressionable age where money talks. She's got to learn for herself the hardway that dad wiggles and worms his way out of his money promises.
It's so hard for you now, but someday she will thank you for letting her make own choices.
Try not to let Dick get under your skin now, you've got good lawyers moving you in a good direction.
Hope today went well.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.