I appreciate your input. Don't forget though that it was gotten me from a W that said she should have never married me and will go insane if she stay's with me to a W that hugs and kisses me and says she can't imagine how hard this has been for me.
There has been some progress.
EB. Yet she continues to move forward on seperating. It is fine to be polite and show compassion. However, do not let her trample over you. She is moving out and breaking up the family. I don't think you should help her do it. Read some of the stuff Robx wrote me. You can not stand to keep a marriage together while helping her to break it up. You may make her angry, but you will also gain respect from her if you stand up to her on some of these things. You will also feel better about yourself. Go out and GAL; move on and enjoy your life without her for a while. My W did not start moving back toward me until she felt I had dropped the rope (I had by no way dropped the rope yet, but she perceived it that way).