Alrighty. Log on to check email, and I get one from my lawyer. It says he had the chance to speak with H's lawyer....My lawyer says H still wants a divorce and H's lawyer was positive about this. My lawyer says he's going to pick some dates for a hearing as H also completely disagrees with my response.
I'm shocked.
I call H and say "So, should I just stay here with my family? What's going on?" I explain the email and H says (this is the very short version) that he hasn't had the chance to speak with his lawyer and no, that's not right. He said, as a matter of fact, H's lawyer tried calling him today, but H had to call him back because he was busy. When H calls his lawyer, lawyer is busy. So H sends him an email which H reads to me. Basically the email says Stronger and I are going to work on this ourselves for a while, until November and then reasses things. If we can't work this out, we'll sit down and figure out the terms, give it to the lawyer to put through the courts. But for now, Stronger and I are going to make a go of it. It's in the best interest of our child.
H told me "Just take your foot off the gas....no drama, remember?" Very calmly I went off. I basicaly said if you don't want drama, one solution would be better communication on your part....you filed, you got the lawyer so how about you keep him in the loop so he's not giving misinformation to my lawyer. That email you sent TODAY, should have gone to your lawyer about two weeks ago. He said "Well...I've been busy...."
Whatever. H says "I told you I want to work on it, so let's relax and work on it. Take your foot off the gas." Yeah, that works out because I'll have to take it off the gas to shove up your A$$!
Good lord. I'm on vacation. Who needs this? Seriously?
