It takes a big person to admit he or she is guilty of this type of abuse. Right now, my H doesn't believe anything along these lines when I try pointing it out to him- he turns it around onto me and makes it my issue. Our best shot is having the MC, a neutral third party, point it out to him. He will be more willing to listen if it comes from somebody else whom he respects. So far, he thinks this MC might know what he is talking about (compared to the one we saw 6 or 7 years ago. The real problem was that MC#1 could see through his BS and he didn't like that!)
