The best I can gather, the EA began about 3 years ago. That would be shortly after our relationship hit a real rough spot (much of which was my fault). OM left his W 2 years ago and is still in mediation on the dissolution. I started getting signs about that time. And, yes, the first bomb hit in January. I think W realized she hit the point of no return about a year ago now.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1