wow.. great supportive thread you've got going here for WAS.
LBS's whine about wanting to know what's going on in our heads and then roll out the welcome mat like this??
It was "LBS script" like this that kept me in lurking mode & from initially, & more recently, posting for months. I know several WAW or AWAW that were active on DB & have now gone 'underground' because of threads and postings like this one.
The purpose of THIS particular forum on DB is for the WAS to find support and share the R experience from OUR perspective, as we work through our own issues, much like the ENTIRE rest of the board is for the LBS to work through and share their experience with support.
If more WAS felt comfortable posting here & finding the level of support given to LBS, instead of the vilification this particular thread seems to offer, maybe they could move forward in a more healthy way
Self-preservation/selfish... different sides of the same coin.
DB is about saving yourself first. The WAS just got a jump on it.
Peace Bridge
I agree with you Bridge. But this is as Dday has said an valuable source for correspondance and understanding btween LBS and WAS. The subject of this post is in my opinion, valid. And its a question that a WAS can help bring understanding to the table. Both WAS and LBS have a very hard time and I'd be willing to say in many cases the WAS can have a more difficult time.
DBing is a great way for an LBS to prepare themselves in a healthy way for divorce OR reconciliation.
Your input is appreciated and thanks!
SGfan
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
