A long time is right. The "bomb" came for me nearly a year ago. Looking back I can see there were some issues as long as two years before that.

Tristan, didn't your stuff start nearly three years ago as well with your "bomb" coming in January?

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.