I can really see both sides here.

Me: Self. W is going through a really confusing, hard time. She needs to you be understanding and supportive. If you love her you will worry more about what is best for her. Added bonus, this will keep me involved with her life and help to paint me in a nicer light in her eyes.

AND.........

Me: It's me again, self. WTF? She wants to be independent, let her be independent. Draw a line. Don't let yourself be treated disrespectfully. Let her see what "independence" is really like. Have fun moving the couch upstairs with your feaking GF. I will not condone this. She will not get my blessing.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.